标签：育儿

A mind of sending daughter to a kinder garten,most is her mother's,has been given up.

the teacher of the school said our daughter is too young.After asking some friends who have sent their child to kinder garten and observing some children in the school,my wife told me she had given up the mind above.

However,I don't agree much with the mind of sending daughter to school at beginning.

MiMei has been catched cold about a week and has returned to normal today.Her mother and I took her go to play by the Big River this afternoon.

I found there are two things should be noticed concerning my daughter.One is when should she go to kinder garten and another is eating by herself beacause she is interesting with eating with little scoop now and we shouldn't hit her passion of eating by herself.

  In Spring Festival,these days,I found MiMei eats too much 零食。This is a bad beginning.We must be aware of it.

    There are several times in the passing half an year,MiMei has not been taken to 打预防针 because she was in a not better health status then.Today,I took her go to 打预防针 with her two sister this afternoon,Friday,sunny.

    Doctor told me,we must take our daughter go to 补打预防针 every month later,there are five times need to supplemented.

  yesterday,when I came to home after working in countryside about a week,we found "MiMei"-my daughter,refuse me touch her.Obviousely,she  was umfamiliar with me then,only after a week.I was a little sad.Maybe,she was angry with me.But, the thing happened later make me more sad.An old classmate which never knew anything about me from we separated more than ten years ago,was allowed to touch her,and,will follow him leave us by autocycle!I thought,if a villain take her away like this...what terrible!

  I think,we should educate our daughter be aware the villain.

    前几天，我看见咪妹手中的一件刚才还在玩的玩具丢了，我问她玩具到哪里去了。她一脸严肃，非常慎重的说了两个字：“耗耗。”。那样的神态就像福尔摩斯断案后的肯定。

    于是，我发现，只要我们问她某样东西哪里去了的时候，她都会这样一本正经的回答“耗耗。”。我估计是我不在家的时候，大人把她喜欢的东西藏起来的时候这样告诉她的。于是，老鼠成了替罪羊。

    问题是，我们大人应不应该以这样的方式骗她呢？

    咪妹的个性一天比一天明显了。

    今天下午，我和她妈妈和她外婆带她到公园去玩。我们给她买了一个气球。如果有别的小朋友靠近她的话，她就会大声的吵别人，意思是说：这是我的，不许靠近！

    还有，有时，她一个人在前面跑，如果我们大人跟上去的话，她会跑过来，把你推开，还一边吵。意思是说：我会走路了，你们就不要跟在我的后面了。

    咪妹的个性渐渐的显露出来，我们大人总应该做点什么，引导她向好的方向发展。

  

    很明显的感觉到，咪妹一天比一天长大了。最近几天，每到吃饭的时候，她都会跑到我跟前来，把我从电脑前面拉开，嘴里叫着：“爸爸，吃饭，吃饭。。。”。每当这个时候，心里就甜滋滋的。

    就在刚才，我正在喝水。她在我旁边看见了，飞快的跑出去，手里拿了一件她用的围腰，一边喊着爸爸，一边让我蹲下去，让她把围腰塞进我的颈项。这时我才明白过来，原来，我们给她喝水为了防止水灌进她的颈项里，就是这样用围腰给她隔在颈项上的。

    咪妹的进步真的很快。

    “横牛”在我们这里形容不讲理的“耍泼”。咪妹头上有两个旋（跟我一样），我还据此得意洋洋，在她小的时候我还说，这下不会把你认错了，你头上的两个旋就是标志。据说，头上有超过一个旋的人很横。也许是吧。我倒是很讲理的。

    上次，她妈妈不让她睡觉前吮手指，还轻轻的打了她的手，这下可好，整整横了一两个小时才肯依。这样的经历已有两三次了。我据此告诉她妈妈，给咪妹戒吮手指可以在白天进行，晚上她入睡前吮会儿手指就算了吧。

    咪妹的性情比较急躁，这在她小的时候就表现出来了。我们应该在她成长的过程中多引导一下。

    前两天，在乡下工地时，听说本地的小孩腮腺炎流行。有时一个班的学生就有６、７个得了腮腺炎。我赶紧打电话给老婆，叫她不要把咪妹带到人多的地方去。回到家后，我到药店买了一幅预防腮腺炎的中药给大家喝。